Sooraj Bagdia, 17 Jan 2016

Two thoughts constantly eat up our brains 1. You are a game changer. You can conquer whatever you wish 2. The Universe has already set everything. Your role is defined; you must play it and return to where you came from.

Earlier, I used to think I had the power to change the world, conquer the world and live the way I wished to live. I will decide my Destiny, future, friends, life partner & every decision. The law of Karma says: Whatever you do, you will get results accordingly if I am doing good work, not cheating, not torturing or harassing someone and living in precise manners. , I can go and talk to God without any guilt. However, I may have hurt someone unintentionally sometimes because of my mood, anger, tension or frustration. Still, I can be called a good person because I never wished to happen something wrong to someone. So, I will get good results from Karma.

Now, some things happen, and you get this kind of question in your mind:

The Universe is working in a predefined way. All the calculations of the Universe are predefined. It doesn't matter whether you know it or not; it will happen as it was supposed to. You come into this world with specifically defined tasks and leave the world as time set by God. You are a tiny particle in this Universe, and whether you are there or not, whether you make an impact or not, the Universe will continue. 

This leads to another little thought:

Let's assume I am nervous today or a bit angry, but I still manage to keep up with myself the best I can and give out my 100% for that particular day. The next day, I got some experience out of it, and I became a bit wiser. The next day I gave my best, and I became wiser. The cycle keeps on continuing for a lifetime. That's what experience is called. So after some days may be months or years later, some bad happens, so we should regret it or convince ourselves that we tried our best that day; there should be no scope for regret. 

You get to know a new dimension which is partially a mixture of the above two thoughts:

The beginning and end are already defined, and in between, whatever you do, you will have results. The Destiny is set according to work done in the past. Adding energy or positive vibes gives you new hope to believe in everything you want to happen. We pray, talk to people, meditate to make peace with our minds, and then we can take the necessary action to keep trying or give it up. We get to know the examples and try to relate them to ourselves, and again, we get a boost in trying to solve or pass through it. We know everyone in this world has a different story and can't be identical, but still, we match it up with our story and make a direction for the things in which we want it to happen. We call it luck. If it can happen to someone, it can also happen to us, whether positive or negative.

These thoughts of Karma, luck & Destiny come only when you regret something or someone.

The absolute truth is we are all going to die one day. No one can deny it, no one can ignore it, or no one can change it. So, I am 25 years old now and let's say I am going to live 75 years (It's a guess; life is very, very short; no one knows when will be our last breath still consider it 75 years). This means I have lived my life for 33%, and already I am left with â…" portion, i.e. 66% (That too, I have assumed living of 75 years). After knowing this truth, I should regret something or someone daily or accept it & live life because each day is precious, which we will not get back. We should celebrate we are alive and, most of all, prayers or desires are fulfilled or focus on the few who are not. Our life gets messed up when our near ones leave us, so should we get mentally disturbed or depressed or get detached and move on quickly? 

If we look at Ramayana & Mahabharata, all our Lords had to make sacrifices in some ways. They had made some mistakes that resulted in massive disruptions. Still, They struggled, went through it and corrected it without losing something. So we are humans, we will make some mistakes, and we should work, fight for it and try to fix them. 

A decision is taken at any point, and life changes completely. Looking back on our lives, we would see our life switched by a series of decisions that were in our control or beyond our control. I don't know if this can be called Destiny, luck, or Karma, but your life will keep changing every moment, and some things you have will not have control. We can accept and change it or change and accept it. 

After thinking, living and passing through these thoughts, I can say about life is:

Life is concise; we don't know what can happen to us or our loved ones. Anger will destroy you; ego will take you nowhere. Let's consider each day as a particular day. Give your 100% into relationships, family, friendship, work, business & most importantly, faith in God. It's your life; love it unconditionally. Enjoy life to the fullest on the front foot. Consider Ups and Downs, mistakes, and sacrifices are part of life. Accept that some things are beyond your control, and you can't win someone. Regret happens, but how quickly we can accept and make peace with it is up to us. Live for yourself & leave all this Destiny, Karma, and luck matter to God. He will give you results that are best for you and accept them peacefully. Trust your instincts. Miracles happen every moment; let's not lose hope & never keep regrets in life. Whatever happens, happens for something good! Whatever is meant for you will make its way back to you!

We have got one life! Cherish it! 

-Sooraj

27.11.19